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Maybe We’re Like Johnny and Penn

Hey guys.

That title probably doesn’t make that much sense. I’m watching a movie on Netflix and Johnny and Penn are two characters who start out in a relationship and who do love and care about each other, but they’re not right for each other in that way. So they split up.

There’s a difference between them and how I’m feeling though.

I’m head over heels madly and deeply in love with him. He made me believe in love again. He stole my heart and he’s everything I’ve ever wanted in my life. He is my life.

But when I see people kissing in movies with that spark in their eyes, kissing deeply and lovingly and emotionally, it hurts my heart, because he doesn’t kiss me like that. He doesn’t pull me close to him and tangle his fingers in my hair and kiss me like I’m the only girl he’s ever kissed. I get life isn’t a movie and things aren’t a fairytale. But I just want to feel like his dream girl.

I don’t want to feel like he’s forcing himself to be in love with me when his heart is somewhere else. I think we could be amazing friends. We could have a great time hanging out and playing Pokemon Go and playing COD and watching movies and we could laugh all the time.

But as I think about us moving in together and sharing a room, sharing intimate space and about how he stops talking so much when I talk about things like marriage and the future, I can’t help thinking maybe we should have stayed friends.

Maybe when I started looking at him and feeling my heart skip beats I should have ignored it. When I told him I liked him and he talked about still being obsessed with his ex, maybe I should have let it go there.

I don’t know if I’ll even post this, but I can’t help thinking as I sit here, that maybe the man of my dreams, only sees me as a friend when I see him as home.

Thanks for listening guys.

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Anxiety and Driving

So, let’s get straight to the subject of this post:driving. Does anyone else have serious driving anxiety? I am aware this isn’t restricted solely to people who have anxiety but sometimes mine goes a little over the norm. I frequently find myself taking a dirt road that probably isn’t great for the vehicle just to avoid the traffic on the hard road. I put my blinker on prematurely for the fear of getting rear ended when the driver doesn’t realize I’m turning. I’ve had my license for almost 3 years now and I still won’t drive on the highway. The actual speed doesn’t worry me. It’s other people driving that scares me. I have no idea what they’re going to do, you know? I don’t know, let me know if you have the same problem. I know this was a shorter post but it’s earlier in the day than I usually post so there will probably be another post later (with pictures!) and a poem or short story as well. Keep looking and as always, have a great day!